Bullying at School

Bullying is a complex problem which in many instances can be sorted out through negotiation and diplomacy with your current educational establishment. It is extremely unlikely that they are any happier to tolerate bullying than you are. However, don’t go in unprepared. Great suggestions of where to start can be found on the ChildLine Parental Fact Sheet, or from the excellent parental guidance section at Bullying Online.

However, when an institution is unresponsive—fortunately a rare occurrence—then it takes an extremely long time to sort out the problem. In these circumstances many parents can feel compelled to remove their child. Negotiating the transfer of a student from one state sector school to another can be a very tricky business, with your LEA under no obligation to provide the alternative of your choice. Indeed, the schools in your area with places available are likely to be those that are the least popular.

So is Home Schooling for you?

Have you thought about the socialisation issue? Home schooling will take your child away from the bullies, but to some extent it will also take them away from their friends. If you’re going to choose to home school your child, particularly if they have already been bullied, they will need emotional support in getting out and meeting new people. There are many places where your child can make new friends. Scouting organisations, sports clubs and hobby groups may be good places to start.

Home schooling will place demands on you as a parent and you will need to know what your child should be learning. Indeed, in some cases you will be creating their curriculum. You will also need to be able to mentor your child and ensure they are making progress on their course. For instance, if your child needs immediate help from their tutor, they should be encouraged to be pro-active in seeking their assistance.

If you wish to speak to a student adviser, call on 0800 0111 024. They will be only too happy to talk this kind of issue through with you.